Skip to main content

Teenagers confusing infatuation with love

Teenage is one of the best part of our lives. It is filled with fun, laughter, joy and lots of curiosity.
Love! Infatuation! Getting obsessed with things! Confusing infatuation with love! And much more is all a part of teenage.
I won't write much about love because each one of us have a different opinion about it.
Infatuation is the most common between teenagers. Mostly, they confuse it with love. They become so rebel and start behaving as adults.
It is the time when a person goes through both physical and mental changes. It is when they start learning new things, they even develop many habits, some good and bad. Getting into relationships, making commitments make them feel like adults and they enjoy doing so.
Whosoever tries to stop them becomes their enemy. At this age their hormones and fluctuation in feelings make them curious and so they do things which they are stopped to do. Because of the exposure they get through TV shows and also from their surroundings. They start doing the same. The wrong path attracts them and so they choose it.
There are many more reasons why teenagers get confused between love and infatuation.
The only way out is that they should be more open to their family and talk about their feelings without any hesitation. Even the elders should treat them with love and care because at this age it isn't their fault, it is just a growing phase of their life.
It's natural, everyone goes through it. Even I did.
All what they should be taught is that love, infatuation are all secondary things.
The most important thing for them is they themselves and their first priority is their life. They should learn to see both the positive and negative sides of any decision that they take and should choose wisely.
They also have to understand that growing up does includes depression, sadness, loneliness, failure and a lot of negativity. But they should also know that all this makes them strong for all the upcoming challenges. 😊

Comments

Popular posts from this blog

Random Thoughts 04

No matter how much I say "I don't believe in love anymore." I'll still be listening to all d love songs, reading all the love stories and writing about love.

Relationship Goals Turned Into Reality

I looked at myself in the mirror of my life after nearly an year today. Since you've entered my life I haven't got the time to look at myself probably ever since then, for all I ever wish to see is that attractive and adorable face of yours. Your entrance in my life has been a drastic change. In this complete time span of one year I have realized that me freckles have faded away. The dark circles under my eyes are no longer there. Even though I stay up late in the morning talking to you, I don't feel tired at all. You took away all my pain and fatigue. Are you a pain killer? Or an anti-depressant ? Talking to you makes me overwhelmed with joy, the way you complete me on my smile and even on the smallest of things. You make me feel high. An year ago, I didn't see the sun the way I do now. But ever since you have come, the sun dances across the sky daily. It sets in an incredibly beautiful manner, changing hues. You are the kind of person I have always wished for. A...

To the one I once loved

Hey you! I just want you to know that I fucking hate you. I can't tolerate you in my life. You are just a headache to me. You made a mess out of me. Today I am at that point where I can trust nobody. I hardly have friends. I have no one to whom I can speak my heart out. You are just a jerk. All the ill that has happened to me is because of you. I lost my best friends. I fought with everyone for you. Sadly, you only need me to fulfil your lust and to listen to your innumerable of drama, excuses, opinions and what not. Each time I tried making time for us, you ended licking my body. You are no less than an asshole who ruined me up. I want you to leave me alone for the rest of my life. I know there was a time when you were my definition of an ideal partner. But that was just a mistake which I am surely going to regret till the end of time. You killed the child in me. I just hate you for everything. How dare you ruin my life? The differences between us are never ending. Even ...